WHY???
Why do females (over) indulge in projecting onto guys? We meet them on Day 1, and if we fancy them, with (a very short) time, we've dreamt up liking more, being liked back, minor relationship tiffs and the make-ups, all leading up to where our minds meet the horizon. Meanwhile, the guy is still on square one, yet to even start his engines (unless, of course, he's fancied you for quite a bit. Or he has aspirations being intimate with your intimates).
Why do the ones who like us seem blah, or sha have K-leg, while we persist in liking the ones who mostly do us more harm than good?
Why can't there be less love-triangles and more love- .... straightlines??? If we indulged less in rom-coms, and followed up on 5-years-down-the-line of happy-endings, would we be less inclined to be bedazzled by what we think we want, and focus more on what lies beneath?
Why do we dream of being a bride so much, but never really focus on married life beyond the wedding?
Why don't we ever think first to ask the Lord to find and recognize the ones we can be happy and make a home with from the very beginning, rather than wait till we're moving into our "best-by dates" to invite Him in, and then STILL settle for any random person that happens along when our desperation enters full-bloom?
